Category Archive: Reducing Debt

4 Bad Habits Keeping You From Financial Freedom

Over the past 15 years as a financial advisor, I have seen  four habits that constantly trip people up financially.  Many of these mistakes are avoidable.  Being aware of past mistakes, looking at your current behaviors, and making changes is critical to your success.  Take a look at these behaviors and see if any of these describe you:

BAD HABIT #1: Discontentment

“Content makes poor men rich; discontentment makes rich men poor.” – Benjamin Franklin

This is by far one of the worst habits.  Buying more than you can afford and endless spending destroy wealth in a heartbeat.  It doesn’t matter how much you make, if you spend more than you make, you’ll go broke!

Instead:

  • Analyze your needs versus wants
  • What you think about you become!  Solomon said it best: “For as he thinks in his heart, so is he.” (Proverbs 23:7)
  • Are you preparing your finances to be blessed?
  • God talks a lot about being faithful with small things before He will bless you with more
  • Likewise, He cannot bless steps you never take

BAD HABIT #2: No Budget/ No Plan

Far too many people “wing” and “fly by the seat of their pants”.  What about you?  Do you have a plan or better yet are you following it?

  • In Matthew 25, the master gave each servant something to manage according to their ability.  Those who were faithful were rewarded with more.  The servant who buried his talent in the ground was considered lazy and gave his talent to the one more obedient.
  • People who lack money often fail to handle the basics (set up a budget, spend less than you make, save for a rainy day, and planning for the future).
  • Look at our Federal government.  You can’t spend more than you make. Our government chooses to spend more than it makes and is making up the difference with debt (borrowing from U.S. citizens and companies, and other national governments, etc.).

BAD HABIT #3: Failure to understand basic economics

Far too many people are financially illiterate.  They fail to understand the stock market, basic economics, and budgeting to name a few.   This leads to heartache and an empty bank account.

  • What about our economy?  Our economy was built on a house of cards – a mirage.  With easy credit and ability to use our homes as a piggy bank.  Now the debt is catching up with America.  How will you get back on course?
  • We will go through more economic ups and downs.  How you respond to the ups and downs is most important.

BAD HABIT #4: Too much debt

This is a hard lesson learned.  You can delay payments, pay interest only, refinance, etc but eventually the bills become due and will you be able to keep up? Borrowing too much will impose on your future.

  • Over-consumption leads to debt (spending from credit cards, loans, etc.).
  • You get deeper into debt the longer you spend more than you make.  The longer you spend more than you make the more debt becomes a habit, and habits (especially lifestyle habits) are hard to break.

These four habits will surely get you off track.  Do any of these habits trip you up? I’d love to hear your story…

Five Principles to Thrive in Your Life

Is your financial house built on rock or sand?

I have been advising and counseling others on how to build true wealth for the past fifteen years. I have seen my personal share of ups and downs and witnessed thousands of others. The 2008-2009 financial crises was sure a wake-up call for many investors as they watched the financial system they trusted for their future collapse in a few short months.

It got me thinking about how many people, Christians included, built and continue to build their financial houses on sand. I am reminded of Matthew 7:24-26:

“Therefore everyone who hears these words of mine and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on the rock. The rain came down, the streams rose, and the winds blew and beat against that house; yet it did not fall, because it had its foundation on the rock. But everyone who hears these words of mine and does not put them into practice is like a foolish man who built his house on sand.”

Five steps to help you build a solid foundation

Early this year I set out on a journey to see who thrived in 2009 and who barely survived. I conducted nearly 600 interviews to determine if there was a solid difference between those who did well in difficult times and those who fell apart. The numbers were alarming! Only 5% thrived and moved forward financially during the difficult times in 2009 while 95% of those I interviewed took major setbacks and fell deeper into debt or lost major ground.

Of the 5% who thrived, there were some major common threads:

  • They identified what they valued most in life. They had spent time finding what they loved to do and how to get paid generously for it.
  • They discovered their meaningful purpose in life. They concentrated on using their key strengths and abilities to add value to the world and bless others.
  • They designed their compelling vision for their future. Most had three, five, and ten year goals almost memorized! They knew where they were heading and had a good idea on how they were going to get there.
  • They had a real personal mission statement. Though many of them did not call it a “mission statement”, they lived their life like they were on a mission. Their financial and business lives had clarity and purpose; they created a sense of urgency, and were persistent in their attempts to succeed. If your personal goals and dreams have deep meaning to you then you are far more likely to succeed financially.
  • They not only set goals, they created an action plan. This helped them implement their mission, live their values, and work toward achieving their vision. They hired a good team of advisors and had great council and accountability to set their paths straight.

Because of my key learning and my desire to help others see how they can thrive and not just survive, I just finished an eBook called “Thrive in Your Life – Creating the life you were meant to live”. It describes the Five to Thrive Principles I uncovered as I interviewed those who were succeeding financially.

Thrive Principle One: Become a passionate income earner

Of those who become wealthy, very few become wealthy from the stock market itself. By far, the number one way to becoming wealthy is through finding a way to get paid doing something you absolutely love.

Thrive Principle Two: Become a generous giver

Many fail to give back to our society because they insist they have the lack of two precious resources – time and money. However, those who are most successful often give more than 10% of their income away and spend countless hours volunteering and sharing their time and talents to bless others.

Thrive Principle Three: Become a wise investor

Investing does not just mean haphazardly investing in a mutual fund. Most investors hand over their hard earned dollars to let someone else handle their investments. This can often be the worst thing you can do. Those who are successful invest rather than gamble. Warren Buffet, for example, does not invest a dime in anything unless he is quite certain it will go up in value. That is investing. Gambling, on the other hand, is committing money to a stock, a mutual fund, or something else without a clue as to whether it will go up or down. Too many people gamble rather than invest.

Thrive Principle Four: Become a cautious debtor

If 2008-2009 didn’t teach us anything, debt can be a huge deterrent from gaining wealth. There are good, bad, and ugly uses of debt. Far too many American use debt foolishly and it keeps them enslaved rather than reaching the desired destination – financial freedom!

Thrive Principle Five: become a prudent spender

Those who succeed financially evaluate each spending decision from a variety of angles. They look at price, value, durability, and how it lines up with their life purpose. Just because you have more money doesn’t mean you can or should spend more, especially if your spending doesn’t line up with you life’s values. Those who are successful, despite having wealth, still carefully analyze. Want to the results of being wealthy and missing this principle? How many lottery winners, sports stars, actors and actresses, and other celebrities go bankrupt after earning millions of dollars?

READ THE EBOOK

Everyone Needs a Coach!

A good coach can bring light to your situation

After 6 years, Tiger Woods recently made a major change.  Before you start with the infidelity jokes, I’m talking about major changes in his career – professional golf.    Tiger got to the top of his golf game with a little help from his coach.  However after six years of coaching, Tiger called it quits.

Why is Tiger Woods parting ways with his golf coach?  The reality is Tiger needed to make a move.  When something isn’t working, it is really frustrating – for everyone involved!

I talk with hundreds of people each month via the telephone, email, and in person. Money always seems to be a hot topic!  With the stock market back on a roller coaster course – people are more dazed and confused!  Many coaches, financial advisors, and stock brokers are asset gatherers not asset managers.  They have a vested interest to keep you invested in the markets even when it may not be the best choice for you.   Is your coach part of your team or do they have a hidden agenda?  Why not find an advisor who help bring light to your situation?

It may be time for you to change coaches too

Just like Tiger, it may be time for you to change coaches. The sharp ups and downs recently in the markets are a shocking reminder of what we saw in 2008 and 2009.  Don’t go back down that path! If you have found that you are not where you need to be financially or not getting the help you desire, it may be time for a coaching change! Take control of your future today.  Email me at jay@jayperoni.com for a FREE 30 minute evaluation of your financial situation!

With over 15 years of experience, I can look at your:

  • Investment strategies
  • Retirement plans
  • Business ideas and ways to grow business
  • Estate and legacy plans
  • Tax efficiency (or lack thereof)
  • Savings and spending
  • Debt management
  • And how all these tie together with your faith and values

Sometimes Having a Professional Makes All the Difference in the World!

Miracle on the Hudson

Captain Chesley “Sully” Sullenberger avoided catastrophe by safely landing a US Airways plane on the Hudson River.  On January 15, 2009, Sullenberger was the pilot in command with an extensive flight and military experience, the kind of guy you want in the control pit with the slightest hint of danger.

According to reports:

“Shortly after taking off, Sullenberger reported to air traffic control that the plane had hit a large flock of birds, disabling both engines.  Several passengers saw the left engine on fire. Sullenberger discussed with air traffic control the possibilities of either returning to LaGuardia airport or attempting to land at the Teterboro Airport in New Jersey. However, Sullenberger quickly decided that neither was feasible, and determined that ditching in the Hudson River was the only option for everyone’s survival.  Sullenberger told the passengers to “brace for impact”, then piloted the plane to a smooth ditching in the river at about 3:31 P.M.”

The Miracle?

Every passenger survived!  To land the way Sullenberger did in such a small space with no casualties was beyond a miracle.  With God’s protection and Sullenberger’s expert skills, this flight is remembered for what was saved not what was lost…

There are some things best left to a professional

I can think of a short list of professionals I would want by my side in a jam:

  • Doctor for my health issues/problems
  • Attorney for my legal issues/problems
  • CPA for my tax issues/problems
  • CFP for my financial issues/problems

People often refer to the professionals when it comes to legal and health issues, but when finances enter the picture, all too often people tackle their 401ks, IRAs, and investments alone without consulting a professional.  I’d like to say these do-it-themselves-ers often land safely, but unfortunately miracles are few and far between…

This  only confirms to me that sometimes having a professional makes all the difference in the world!