In the Blink of an Eye…My Scary Day!
I know I don’t share a lot about my personal life on this blog. I tend to keep to myself too often. I probably should open up more, but I don’t…
Today I have to share because today I put a prayer request out there for everyone to see and hundreds of you responded…and prayed! I can’t thank you enough!
My scary day
This morning started like any other day. You know when you wake up and start your routines? You kind of just go through the motions. My strategy for today was – just survive!
I was exhausted. I had been working hard the past two weeks (day and night) as I am expanding services at FaithBasedInvestor.com. So my head hasn’t been hitting the pillow until about 2am each night then I’m usually up around 6. Yes this is way too much work and not enough sleep!
Today, I was more tired than usual, but other than that, it felt like a normal kind of day. However, little did I know that in a matter of hours I would be fighting for the life of my child.
Something went terribly wrong!
Emma is my youngest daughter. The only way to describe her is a 2 year old bundle of joy. One of my good friends, Gerry calls her “smiley” because that’s what she is always doing. No matter the circumstances, Emma knows how to bring a smile to others – both inside and out.
Emma hadn’t been feeling too well on Monday. She had a temperature and nasty virus that knocked her out of character. She was tired and cranky. Yet, by Tuesday’s “glorious” election day, her illness seemed to be all but gone. Or so we thought…
When Emma awoke this morning… She was run down and refused to get out of bed. We let her be. We didn’t give it a second thought that maybe she just needed to catch up on a little sleep. Nothing seemed unusual. As Karen, my wife, was about to leave for the morning, I went up and started to get Emma dressed. It was then, as I went to get Emma and get her ready to head out the door that we noticed something terribly wrong with her.
She refused to get up. Then we tried to wake her up and she wouldn’t respond. Her eyes started rolling back in her head and her breathing halted to a stop. Panic stuck me. Now I wasn’t the one who needed to survive I needed to help Emma survive.
Karen held Emma as I frantically dialed 9-1-1. The operated got our location and calmly walked us through a brief series of tests while she called in the emergency services. Karen administered CPR as we tried to keep Emma alert and fighting… Though the rescue crew arrived within minutes It felt like hours before the paramedics came to the door. My heart was literally beating in my chest. It all came to a boling pont:
- Thoughts of losing her…
- Prayers to my Lord and Savior to spare her life to take mine if need be…
- Realizing what’s truly important in life…
It was in that instant that you realize how precious life is. We are here and gone in a blink of an eye. How many times do we get so caught in a routine and neglect to truly live life?
How many times do we look at life and act like it’s the end of the world?
- We lose a job
- Lose money in the stock market
- Get bad news
Whatever it is…yes it can be life changing, but is it life ending?
Most of the time the answer is a big N-O! Today I saw my daughter’s life in the balance. Only God and the help He sent could save her. Her life was literally in His hands. With your help, He pulled her through… He answered the many prayers of people like you who prayed for her life even though many of you have never met her. For that, I cannot thank you enough. The power of prayer is incredible. The God we serve is amazing. There is nothing He cannot do.
Emma is home with us laughing and smiling again like nothing happened. She is back to her old self. We know the Lord came and saved her and we are so thankful He did!
How much do we take for granted?
I know I sure take a lot for granted…
Sometimes I get impatient, don’t spend enough time with my family or in prayer. I let life get in the way of truly living. Today was a good wake up call… To really think about what’s important. What really matters…
So the next time you look at life as just another day or just another routine, remember life really is like the blink of an eye. We are here today and will be gone tomorrow. Think about what’s really important:
What can you do today to make the world a better place?
To help someone less fortunate?
To make a difference in your family, neighborhood, community, and in the world?
Live today like it really matters because you know what at the end of the day it really does. Today, I am so thankful to the Lord that Emma is here making me smile, again!

















19 Comments
Jay,
Thank you for sharing this personal life event. The Lord is good, all the time!!! May He give you and your family much needed rest and time with them.
Blessings!!
Wendy
Jay,
My heart goes out to you. I can’t imagine how scary that was for you. Praise God all is well. Thanks for sharing and giving me some perspective.
Thanks for your authenticity and openness for sharing. Appreciate your transparency….
Jay: A little over 6 yrs ago my husband of 12 years died in a car accident. I was left alone with our 18 month old daughter. Many of friends and family members thought I was going to crack since I held myself together through everything. I didn’t move back home or beg for help, I prayed. I knew that everything in life is the plan of God. I was married to a wonderful man and I have our daughter to always remember him by. I’m now remarried to another wonderful man that love both my daughter and me very much. He was not much of a church goer but now he goes with us and learning about God more and more. By chance? By luck? Nope, God’s plan!
So glad Emma is doing well, Jay. I’ve been praying for you guys today when I heard this all go down.
You don’t realize what you have often times until something shakes up your reality. It’s a good reminder to me not to take anything for granted.
Jay,
Please be assured that we will remember you all in our prayers.
What was the diagnosis?
God bless and keep Emma safe and healthy.
Andy Malone
Andy,
It was a fever induced seizure. Her body went into shock…
Thank you for sharing Debi! God is amazing and doesn’t make mistakes! Love your heart and attitude!
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Jay
Thank you so much for sharing … So glad to hear Emma is back to her bouncing self! You were all in my prayers all day …
Our God is an awesome God! It is amazing how He works … not only to just respond to our prayers, but to get us to stop and slow down and appreciate life … Not just you but all of us. Your words are witness for ALL if us … Thank you for helping all of us to remember to be thankful of what IS important in life.
Having been through a few moments such as this with my family over the years, I can imagine the emotions you have experienced today. Now, take the time to rest and hold ALL of your family close and enjoy them.
God Bless my friend…
Noreen
Praise God!
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Wow Jay that blog entry was truly beautiful. I was crying when I was reading it. Emma is a blessing and boy does she make you smile. It’s unthinkable how things can change in a matter of minutes when life just passes you by but it does make you relieved and blessed to know that the most important people in your life will be there no matter what. God really does make miracles happen and Emma is a perfect example. Keep smiling and enjoying the happiness she brings and will continue to. Much love…keep writing.
Thanks for sharing, Jay. I have a “smiley” 2-year old daughter myself. Glad to hear she is back to normal. To God be the glory.
As one of the members faithbasedinvestor.com, I do want to say I appreciate all the hard work you have been doing, too. Thanks.
God Bless.
Hello Jay, I just got done reading your blog, and I’m happy Emma is ok, Life is very short , live for today! and sending my prayers for your family.
Donna
Jay thank you for sharing this emotional story.
Jay,
I am so proud to be able to call you a good friend. Ever since I have known you, I have found you to be a caring person, great husband and dad. And this story that you shared with us of personal real life events in your household just confirms it all the more.
For some reason I had overlooked this tragic illness that happened to little Emma, and for that I am so very sorry that I wasn’t there to offer prayers for her. However, I can & will pray for her continued progress in healing.
You and your family are a true inspiration to each of us. Thanks for your transparency, and for all you do to help others.
Have a super great and blessed day,
-Archie
I’m sorry I did not know about Emma’s trauma but give praise to God for His goodness in helping all of you deal with her situation. I know her smiles will never be taken for granted!
Thank you everyone for your awesome kindness and loving prayers. You truly touched the Peroni household! God bless all!